4 Ways To Survive Your Quarter Life Crisis
A couple of years back in my early 20’s, I had an honest-to-goodness self-deliberation, and I was able to come to terms with what happiness truly is based on that reality check. Let’s be honest and admit that we often forget what truly counts when we’re deliriously happy over something that is current, and stress ourselves to the max once the euphoria begins to fade.
So how do you stay positive during this period of doubt and stress as you turn into a full-fledged adult?
1. HAVE AN “A YEAR FROM NOW…” MANTRA
Life would be so dull if you haven’t changed, minimally or significantly, in a year. It would also feel flat if you never got rejected or experienced a painful situation. I dare you to ask every 30-50 year old you knows what has made them stronger, and they will say that it was the heartbreaking things they went through in their lives. The trying times when some people you trusted have spoken ill comments about you, when you were being judged and misjudged because of your personal choices, or when just want to stay at home out of humiliation—take comfort in the thought that everything will change a year after. You’ll be smiling again in no time.
2. BE SELF-CONSCIOUS
Acknowledging your insecurities and past mistakes helps you in developing your strong points and learn from your weaknesses. Since we know that nobody is perfect, we’re also aware that each of us were born with a gift that is meant for sharing to help others. Learn to channel your mojo in something you do well with. This will definitely heighten your self-confidence and understand your purpose in life.
3. SOAR WITH YOUR PASSION
“I hate my life”, is a phrase Jupiter Jones (Jupiter Ascending) kept saying every morning she wakes up before going to her job. I have some friends who say the same thing over and over whenever they encounter a disappointing moment—like a break-up, not getting the promotion they’ve been working hard for, being unable to buy the latest mobile phone, or failing in their exam. I personally can’t do something every day while hating every minute of it. So look into yourself and give your best to thrive in what you’re passionate about. May it be an epic love, making a difference in the society, or working in a paradise. If it’s unsuccessful, then do better next time. As long as you don’t give up in doing what fuels your soul, it will make you feel less-stressed and enjoy the learning process.
4. BE CONTENT
Oftentimes, the people I know who complain regularly are unhappy and ungrateful souls. They look at another’s bowl to see if they have as much as them. These people get so hung up with what they don’t have, and will never be satisfied with whatever is already theirs. The next time you feel that something is lacking in your life, try to think for a second if what you’re craving for is something you really need; and if what you already have will be worth losing over it. Remember, there will always be someone who is happy with less than what is yours; and there are others who are praying for what you already own.
